Teach our Kids to Think

I heard that Suri Cruise will be attending a private school that costs about  $40,000 a year.  It made me stop to wonder about my own grandkids and other children: Will they be able to compete with kids whose parents who spend this much money on their child's school?  Then I realized, it was always that way.  People send their kids to exclusive private schools for many reasons:  for security from paparazzi and other crazy people, for a better education, or to meet and mingle with the “right” network of people. 

Most of us are not in this league -- so what can the rest of us do?  Teach our kids to THINK!
And expose them to the healthy uses of technology – not to play games but to use it as a tool for learning new things, creative expression, and solving problems.  

Technology levels the playing field.

When you hand over your computer to your young child for the first time, watch how he is mesmerized by it. It is such an engaging tool with such potential to unlock your child's genius, but only if used properly.  Teach your child to respect it: Show your child how to tap on the keys. When showing your child how to use the mouse, have him put his hand on top of yours.  He will think he is in control of the mouse. This is so empowering.

Bring up paint program. Have your child create and explore using the different graphic tools. Be specific when talking about your child’s creative picture such as, " I love how you painted the sky green."  Watch your child beam. He will want to continue to create new things and share it with you. 

Let's say your child wants to print his picture. Don’t just tell him, "click here," pointing to the printer icon.  Instead, ask your child, “What do you think you should click?”  If he doesn’t see the printer icon, give clues until he finds it for himself.   Even though it is so much easier to just do it for him, you are teaching your child to THINK and that he can solve problems.

After it is printed, display it, share it with grandma - make a big deal out of your child's creation.  Sounds so simple, yet it is critical for young children to believe he can do anything if he tries.

You are building the foundation for your child  to be a creative thinker.  No matter what he does in the future, there is no doubt he will be using technology and will need to be able to THINK critically and use creative solutions to solve problems.   

You have the power to give your child the skills she'll need to compete in the world tomorrow, not matter how much you spend on her education.