Standardized Testing

It's that time of  year again... 

Kids are spending precious school hours prepping for those dreadful standardized tests.  Parents are anxiously waiting for the results.  When I was a mom with school age children, I know centuries ago, we didn't have facebook, twitter... but we did have phones.  As soon as we would receive the results, our phone would start ringing.  Anxious moms would ask me how my daughters did.  Their child either did horribly or was a genius--all based on that one test.  My response was always the same, year after year.  "My girls did exactly how I expected."   Period.

My girls never even knew their test scores.  I would take the results of the test, glance at them, and put them in a drawer.  Really! One test and your child is a genius, the smartest kid in the school? Or the dumbest?  It's only ONE TEST!  I can tell you now, one of my girls did horribly on the math section of a standardized test.   Had I told her or even mentioned it to anyone, or had she overheard me, she may have believed she wasn't good in math.  She was so quick in math!  There was no way that test was a reflection of what she knew.  Kids believe what others say about them.  Think about it: A standardized test is only one small snapshot of your child.  Your child may have had a bad day, or skipped one of those silly little boxes which then screwed up all the answers.

My advice:   Don't make a big deal when your child takes standardized tests, and especially do NOT post or discuss your child's scores on social media sites.   If your child is doing well all year, then expect he/she will have good results on the tests.  If your child has been struggling, then the teacher and you should have had a plan of action way before the standardized testing.  Tell your child like I did when you get the results.  "You did exactly how I expected and I'm proud of you for trying so hard!"  Then, move on... There's so much more to really learn!