Thursday, August 26, 2010

Method for Success

I have a life motto which represents a philosophy that I have applied in many different contexts, with the same positive results:

Expect + Respect = Success

It is so simple, yet can be so life changing, when applied to the home, the classroom, or elsewhere.

EXPECT - Children are natural born learners and they will strive to meet expectations. Expecting that they can learn new things (and succeed) drives them to work hard, believe in themselves, and even overcome obstacles to succeed. Expect great things.

RESPECT - This word is significant. So much of this "respect" is often lacking in relationships in the home, on the field, or in the classroom. Respect needs to be taught. And respect is not taught through negative reinforcement such as yelling or intimidation. Respect is gained through treating others in a positive way with the expectation that they will treat you and others properly. When respect is demonstrated by adults and directly taught to children, the learning environment becomes a positive one.

SUCCESS - Children learn best in a positive setting, when they know what is expected of them, and they are taught to respect others and their surroundings. Take this method into any home, any classroom, or onto any sports field and you will see positive results. Success.